Is Love suppose to Hurt? Why is it that, the ones we Love so much, are seemingly, the very one that hurt us so much???? How much should we Tolerate?? and just how patient should we be?
REAL TALK:
Sometimes, we as women find ourselves being overly patient and in miserable situations or relationships... at the expense of our own happiness. No, love is not suppose to hurt.
Why is it that?
When it comes to voicing our needs, wants or putting are foot down - we simply don't but, we should. The best advice is to "Know exactly what you want!"
No if's and's or buts, do not Settle. That, right there is what gets us in trouble, we tell ourselves, I guess, I can deal with that; He'll change.
You do not have to "deal" with anything or anyone that is a choice that "you" choose to make and Uhh..No, he won't change!
Let me re-phase that people are capable of change the question is,..Why should/would he change for you?
Which brings us back to the topic "Why is it that, the ones we love so much, are seemingly, the very ones that hurt us?"
Frankly, because we sure can pick'em.
I love the quote:
" When people show you who they are believe them the first time. "
- Maya Angelou
We just tend to overlook/ignore those red flags; and 9 times out of 10 you can see the flags more clearly if, you know what you want. those character malfunctions I call them will stand out. How patient should we be? That depends on how much time you got. Me. I don't like wasting my time and I have little patience for fools.
REAL TALK:
Sometimes, we as women find ourselves being overly patient and in miserable situations or relationships... at the expense of our own happiness. No, love is not suppose to hurt.
Why is it that?
When it comes to voicing our needs, wants or putting are foot down - we simply don't but, we should. The best advice is to "Know exactly what you want!"
No if's and's or buts, do not Settle. That, right there is what gets us in trouble, we tell ourselves, I guess, I can deal with that; He'll change.
You do not have to "deal" with anything or anyone that is a choice that "you" choose to make and Uhh..No, he won't change!
Let me re-phase that people are capable of change the question is,..Why should/would he change for you?
Which brings us back to the topic "Why is it that, the ones we love so much, are seemingly, the very ones that hurt us?"
Frankly, because we sure can pick'em.
I love the quote:
" When people show you who they are believe them the first time. "
- Maya Angelou
We just tend to overlook/ignore those red flags; and 9 times out of 10 you can see the flags more clearly if, you know what you want. those character malfunctions I call them will stand out. How patient should we be? That depends on how much time you got. Me. I don't like wasting my time and I have little patience for fools.
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